Horse Mug

Horse Mug
There is no point flogging a dead horse?

My boyfriend told me yesterday about that I'm not on their list of priorities, whose son just enough so your child is priority, but the second is for your career and get your life in order and then not me. I love this man very much and have done over the past 11 months and has been my main priority I took very surprised by his admission yesterday. He also said that if I had to leave I would never try to return or prosecute me, because no woman's worth and if it did then I would have power over it !!!!!! Seriously, is this the talk of a man madly in love or am I just having a cup?

This is a complicated one. He is right to put her first child, and may have to work hard to get your life together so you can enjoy full of other things – this would be their relationship. Your priorities really make sense, it is not unreasonable. But from what you write a lot like me. When I like someone (and I mean really want) that person is my priority. I do not do it on purpose, I can not help it. That does not mean that begins to live only for that person, I can not live without my friends, but I think I know what I mean. When you feel like the person in the world to you, you need to know to feel the same about you, Otherwise it's like to love someone I really do not mind being without you. At some level, I think your priorities are not a problem for themselves. But it seems that you two are not on the same page. I think he wants a relationship with someone who puts you first and make you feel important, as you do with them. I guess you're right that. it's not his fault that he has a daughter and not his fault that he cares much of his career. You can support, but at the end of the day still want to be a important part of your life, right? If you want to stay in this relationship, you have to accept that probably will never be a top priority. he left clear. This does not mean you do not like, but I do not think he is willing to commit to the relationship of all they are. If you want someone to value the way value them, maybe this is not the man. He says he does not chase you if you left, I do not think that is madly in love and keeps his feet on the ground. can be a good thing, but only you know what you want from a relationship. If you want a great love and passion, it does not sound like him.